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Howard Markman's framework on what couples fight for
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Most couple arguments aren't about the surface issue but about three things: power and control; trust, care and closeness; and respect and recognition.
“they fight for power and control... trust... respect and recognition
TD▶ 1:21:10DosageAsk: what am I fighting for — power/control, trust/closeness, or respect/recognition?Certaintyexplicitrecommendation